She Strengthens

Embracing the Joy of Wedding Planning

Planning a wedding can be an emotional rollercoaster, but it’s essential to remember that it’s a celebration of love and commitment. By focusing on what truly matters, you can minimize the stress and maximize the joy.

The Pressure of Societal Expectations

Weddings have become a spectacle, with societal expectations dictating every detail. From the dress to the guest list, it’s easy to get caught up in trying to please everyone else. However, it’s crucial to remember that the wedding is ultimately about the union of two people.

Breaking Free from Conventional Thinking

I learned this lesson firsthand when planning my own wedding. My husband and I decided to ignore certain expectations and create a day that truly reflected our personalities and values.

Ditching the Tears

One expectation I rejected was the idea that I had to cry when I found the perfect dress. Instead, I approached dress shopping with a clear head, making a pro/con list and considering my budget. I ended up with a beautiful flower crown, and not a single tear was shed.

Unplugging the Ceremony

We also decided to have an unplugged ceremony, asking our guests to refrain from taking photos or using their devices during the ceremony. This allowed our guests to be fully present and enjoy the moment, rather than being distracted by their cameras.

Letting Go of Perfection

Another expectation I ignored was the need for every last detail to be perfect. On the day of the wedding, I entrusted my mom and mother-in-law to set up the decorations and flowers, and I didn’t worry about the specifics. This allowed me to relax and enjoy the celebration.

Keeping it Intimate

We were intentional about keeping our guest list small, inviting only those who were closest to us and our families. This created a warm and intimate atmosphere, rather than a crowded and impersonal one.

Creating Your Own Rules

Ultimately, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to wedding planning. By ignoring certain expectations and creating a day that truly reflects your love and commitment, you can create a wedding that’s authentic and unforgettable.