She Strengthens

Embracing the Art of Prioritization

As I reflect on my relationships, I’ve come to realize that I’ve been guilty of overcommitting and canceling plans at the last minute. I’ve always prided myself on being reliable and responsive, but somehow, I’ve become the flaky friend. It’s time to acknowledge that it’s okay to say no and prioritize my own needs.

The Guilt of Overcommitting

I’ve fallen into the trap of agreeing to plans I’m not interested in because I feel too guilty saying no. But this approach only leads to frustration and disappointment for everyone involved. Instead, I need to be honest with myself and others about my limitations and boundaries.

The Reality of Growing Apart

As we navigate our 20s, it’s natural for friendships to evolve and sometimes fade away. It’s essential to recognize that not all relationships are meant to last. Who we choose to invest time and energy in reveals a lot about our priorities and values.

Pruning the Social Media Tree

I’ve always been hesitant to unfriend or mute people on social media, fearing it would be perceived as rude or insensitive. However, I’ve come to realize that this mindset is rooted in guilt and a desire to avoid conflict. By letting go of these digital connections, I can focus on nurturing meaningful relationships that bring joy and fulfillment to my life.

Valuing Quality Over Quantity

I’m learning to be more intentional with my time and energy, choosing to invest in experiences and relationships that align with my values and goals. This means being pickier about social engagements and prioritizing quality over quantity. I’d rather have a few meaningful connections than a crowded social calendar filled with acquaintances.

Embracing the Flake Label

If being more selective with my time and energy makes me a flake, then so be it. I’m willing to take that label if it means I can focus on what truly matters to me. By prioritizing my own needs and desires, I’m creating space for authentic connections and personal growth.