She Strengthens

Reflections from Abroad: Unpacking Life’s Little Lessons

As I settled into my seat on the plane ride home from a 10-day trip with friends, I couldn’t help but reflect on the experiences that had filled my days. From laughter-filled nights to stargazing and board game marathons, I felt grateful for the opportunity to recharge and refocus.

The Luxury of Leisure

One thing became clear: having access to a private pool was a game-changer. I spent hours swimming, bobbing, and floating, feeling carefree and content. While it’s hard to replicate that experience at home, I’ve realized that investing in a pool membership could be a key to eternal bliss.

Hair Care Reboot

A week and a half of swimming in saltwater and going easy on the conditioner did wonders for my hair. It felt fuller, more textured, and easier to style. I’ve taken note: less conditioning, more natural goodness.

The Power of Disconnection

Chelsea and I spent most of the trip without internet, and it was liberating. Without the distraction, I was able to focus on my work, write without interruption, and proofread with ease. When I did have internet, I was productive and efficient, enjoying the rest of my day. This is a dynamic I plan to recreate at home.

The Joys of Group Travel

I used to view group travel as a hassle, but this trip proved me wrong. Traveling with a mixed-gender group of friends was an entirely wonderful experience. We laughed, discussed meaningful topics, and enjoyed each other’s company. It was a dream scenario that made the trip even sweeter.

Solo Travel: A Timeless Desire

While group travel was a blast, I still crave solo travel. I love exploring new cities on my own, walking alone, and carving out my own schedule. It’s not about being a loner; it’s about being curious and experiencing the world in a unique way.

Emotional Connections

I rediscovered my love for Harry Potter during the trip, and it brought me to tears. It’s a reminder that emotional connections to stories and characters are timeless.

Language Learning: A Humbling Experience

Meeting people who spoke multiple languages was humbling. I realized that learning a second language is not only possible but necessary. I’m committed to paying it forward and learning a new language myself.

Body Positivity and Vacation Mode

I used to dread “bikini season,” but now I’m excited to swim and relax. Vacation means freedom from body issues and embracing the joy of relaxation.

Foodie Fun

Tourism-grocery shopping is one of my favorite things. I love exploring local supermarkets, discovering new delicacies, and bringing back goodies. It’s a unique souvenir that brings me joy.

Homesickness and Family Ties

I’ll admit it: I miss my parents and dog when I’m on vacation. It’s okay to feel homesick, and I’m not ashamed to say it.

Microwave-Free Living

I didn’t use a microwave for nearly two weeks, and I feel great about it. Cooking more and microwaving less is a habit I plan to maintain.

Rethinking Work and Vacation

I used to believe that working on vacation was a bad thing, but I’ve realized that it’s not about being a workaholic; it’s about doing what I love. Working a little bit each day enriches my experience and keeps me engaged.

Unconditional Love

Lastly, I’ve learned that I have the capacity to fiercely love things that are indifferent to me, like my family dog. It’s a reminder to appreciate the little things and show love without expectation.