She Strengthens

The Great Closet Conundrum: How Much is Too Much?

As I prepare for my upcoming move, I’m forced to confront the daunting task of decluttering my belongings. My mind is consumed by the sheer amount of stuff I’ve accumulated, and I can’t help but wonder: am I a hoarder?

Comparing Notes

I often find myself comparing my collection of clothes to others. My boyfriend, with his minimalist approach, makes me feel like a shopaholic. But then I see a fashion blogger’s overflowing closet and suddenly I feel like a paragon of simplicity. It’s a never-ending cycle of self-doubt.

To gain some perspective, I reached out to several women to ask about their wardrobe habits. Here’s what they shared:

Lindsey’s Confession

“I’m embarrassed to admit I have two packed closets and a dresser full of clothes. I’ve spent a small fortune on my wardrobe, and it’s hard to part with items, even when I know I have too much.”

Jasmine’s Shoe Obsession

“I have over 100 pairs of shoes, and it’s a source of shame for me. I know I’ve spent a staggering amount on them, and it’s hard to justify the expense.”

Ashley’s Simple Approach

“I own fewer than 30 items of clothing, mostly basics. I’m not happy with my body right now, so I’m focusing on covering up. If I lose weight, I’ll invest in a new wardrobe. I’ve spent less than $200 on my entire wardrobe, which sounds crazy, but it’s what works for me.”

Christine’s Practicality

“I have a modest wardrobe that fits comfortably in my closet. I’ve invested in quality pieces, which has worked well for me. I’m not into fashion, so I don’t feel the need to keep up with trends.”

Shannon’s Shopping Habit

“I have a lot of clothes, maybe more than necessary. I shop regularly and get rid of items often. I’ve spent a good amount, but I also make money by consigning luxury pieces.”

Erin’s Wardrobe Overhaul

“I’m currently replacing my entire wardrobe with new, high-quality pieces. I’ve spent over $900 so far, but it’s worth it to me. I want a wardrobe that feels adult and reflects my personal style.”

Emily’s Closet Conquest

“My husband might hate me because I’ve taken over his closet! I know I have more than I need, but I’m emotionally attached to my clothes. I’ve spent thousands, and it’s hard for me to part with them.”

The Verdict

It’s clear that everyone has their own approach to building and maintaining a wardrobe. While some of us struggle with clutter and overspending, others have found a balance that works for them. As I prepare to pack up my belongings, I’m left wondering: what’s the right amount of stuff? Maybe it’s not about the number of items, but about finding a sense of comfort and confidence in our own skin – and closets.