Reflecting on My 2017 Money Choices
As we approach the midpoint of 2017, I’ve been taking stock of my financial decisions and how they’ve impacted my life. This year has been a significant one, with major changes like getting engaged, joining a political organization, moving to a new apartment, and taking on more work. These big moves have made me realize the importance of evaluating what truly adds value to my life.
Investing in Quality of Life
There are a few things I’ve spent money on that I definitely don’t regret. For instance, our new apartment has been a game-changer. After visiting numerous apartments and working with multiple brokers, we found a place that truly feels like home. Although it meant paying a bit more than we initially planned, it’s been worth it. The boost to my mental health, productivity, and overall well-being has been immense. If you’re considering spending more on a better living space, I highly recommend it.
Another valuable investment has been my membership in the Democratic Socialists of America. Since joining, I’ve become more involved in political activism, which has been incredibly fulfilling. The sense of community and purpose I’ve found through this organization has been well worth the cost.
Lastly, my engagement ring has been a worthwhile splurge. While it’s a significant expense, it’s a beautiful symbol of my commitment to my partner, and I love wearing it every day. However, I’m also aware of the privilege that comes with owning something so luxurious, and I’m mindful of when it’s appropriate to display it.
Lessons Learned
On the other hand, there are a few things I’ve spent money on that haven’t been worth it. For example, I bought a special “engagement” dress for my engagement dinner, thinking it would add to the occasion. In reality, it didn’t make a significant difference, and I would have been just as happy wearing something from my existing wardrobe.
I’ve also come to realize that I’m not cut out for plant parenthood. Despite my best efforts, I always seem to end up killing my plants. It’s time for me to accept that I’m not a plant person and focus on more low-maintenance decorations.
Lastly, I’ve learned that I’m not a fan of the typical “bar scene.” While I enjoy a quiet, intimate bar experience or a romantic dinner at a bar, I don’t enjoy loud, crowded bars where the focus is on drinking and shouting. These experiences often leave me feeling regretful about the money I’ve spent.
Taking Control of My Finances
As I continue to navigate my financial decisions, I’m committed to being more intentional about how I spend my money. By focusing on what truly adds value to my life, I’m confident that I’ll make more informed choices that align with my goals and priorities.
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