She Strengthens

Unlikely Lessons from a Summer of Sweat and Tears

The Summer That Shaped Me

For eight unforgettable weeks in 2008, I embarked on a journey that would alter my perspective on work, friendship, and life. As a summer camp counselor, I was thrust into a world of non-stop activity, where days blended into nights, and exhaustion was a constant companion. Yet, amidst the chaos, I discovered valuable lessons that would stay with me long after the summer ended.

The Power of Isolation

When you’re far from home, surrounded by strangers, something remarkable happens. You form bonds quickly, deeply, and often irrevocably. My coworkers became my support system, my confidants, and my friends. I learned that the more isolated you are, the more likely you are to form strong work friendships. It’s a lesson that has served me well in subsequent jobs, where I’ve come to appreciate the value of shared experiences and mutual support.

Attitude is Everything

When you’re part of a team, you can either choose to resent those who don’t pull their weight or focus on the positive contributions of others. I learned that my attitude was crucial in shaping my experience. By focusing on the good, I created a more positive work environment, which in turn, improved my mental well-being.

The Importance of Downtime

In a world where constant connectivity is the norm, it’s easy to get sucked into the vortex of availability. But I learned that taking short breaks, where no one knows where you are, is essential for mental rejuvenation. It’s a habit I’ve carried into my current job, where I deliberately avoid email and distractions to recharge.

Inventing Fun

Summer camp taught me that the cheapest ways to have fun are often the most creative. Without the luxury of disposable income, we relied on our imagination to entertain ourselves. This lesson has stayed with me, reminding me to invest in people, not pricey activities, and to cherish the simple joys of life.

Hard Work vs. Busy Talk

At summer camp, it was easy to distinguish between those who worked hard and those who merely talked about being busy. This lesson has been invaluable in my professional life, where I’ve learned to recognize the difference between action and rhetoric.

Finding Your Groove

Summer camp may not be for everyone, but its intensity and camaraderie can be a potent catalyst for personal growth. For me, it was a transformative experience that shaped my approach to work and relationships. If you’re lucky enough to find a job that ignites your passion and energy, hold on to it – it’s a rare and precious thing.