She Strengthens

The Comfort of Familiar Traditions

As the holiday season approaches, I’m reminded of the importance of traditions in my life. My family’s annual gathering, complete with spaghetti, roast beef, and gooey butter cake, is a staple of my childhood. Despite the changes that come with growing up, the core of our tradition remains the same, providing a sense of comfort and familiarity.

Beyond Family Ties

While family traditions are a given, friendships require more effort to maintain. As life takes us in different directions, it’s easy to lose touch. That’s why I’ve come to appreciate the value of creating traditions with friends. These shared experiences provide a sense of obligation, reminding us to prioritize our relationships and make time for each other.

Monday Night Dinners and TV Club

One of my favorite traditions is Monday night dinner and TV club. What started as a gathering to watch The Bachelor/ette has evolved into a weekly ritual, with my boyfriend and I taking turns cooking and sharing a meal while watching our favorite shows. It’s a low-key way to stay connected and catch up on each other’s lives.

Pie-Centric Celebrations

My love for baking has led to another tradition: making occasions out of pie. Whether it’s a spontaneous gathering or a planned event, pie is always the star of the show. It’s a simple yet effective way to bring people together and create lasting memories.

Friends-Centric Holidays

Peter and his friends introduced me to the concept of Friendsgiving and Friendsmas, secular holiday celebrations that bring together a group of close friends. These potluck-style gatherings are a great way to bond with friends and create new traditions.

Annual Adventures

Every summer, I join my friends for a long weekend at a lake house in New Hampshire. This annual trip has become a highlight of my year, filled with outdoor activities, good food, and quality time with friends. While it requires some planning and budgeting, the experience is well worth it.

Saturday Morning Bagels and Matinees

Lastly, I cherish my Saturday morning routine with Peter: walking to our favorite bagel shop, enjoying a leisurely breakfast, and catching a matinee movie. It’s a relaxing and affordable way to spend time together, and I love sharing this experience with friends who visit from out of town.

The Beauty of Homemade Traditions

These small, yet meaningful traditions have enriched my life and helped me stay connected with friends despite the challenges of distance and busy schedules. While I dream of more lavish adventures, I appreciate the simplicity and affordability of these gatherings. They remind me that it’s the little things in life that truly matter.