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The Joy and Regret of Holiday Spending

As the holiday season approaches, many of us find ourselves caught up in the spirit of giving and indulging. While some purchases bring us joy and cheer, others often lead to regret come January 1. Here’s a breakdown of the holiday splurges I’ve learned to avoid, and the few that are always worth it.

Holiday Spending Pitfalls

The Turkey Trap
I’ve come to realize that I’m not a fan of turkey, yet every year I feel obligated to buy one for Thanksgiving. This ends up being a waste of money, oven space, and future fridge space on leftovers I don’t even like.

Festive but Overpriced Snacks
Those holiday-themed snacks at Trader Joe’s might be tempting, but most are just normal snacks infused with peppermint. And let’s be honest, they’re not worth the extra cost.

Eggnog: A Holiday Misstep
I know some people love eggnog, but to me, it has a weird consistency, flavor, and is only passable with alcohol. There are better seasonal beverages out there.

Impersonal Gifts
We’ve all been there – buying last-minute gifts that are impersonal and probably useless in the long run. It’s better to take the time to find something thoughtful and budget-friendly.

Sequined Outfits: A Fashion Faux Pas
I’ve yet to find a glittery holiday outfit that doesn’t chafe, leave a trail of sparkles, or flatter my figure. The novelty wears off quickly, leaving me with a wardrobe regret.

New Year’s Eve Disasters
One bad experience with a fancy holiday party was enough to scare me off NYE events for life. The costs, crowds, and chaos just aren’t worth it.

Black Friday Frenzy
I’ve learned to avoid the temptation of Black Friday sales, realizing that better deals often come later in December.

Calendars, Planners, and Other Future-Year Gear
I’ve fallen prey to the temptation of buying expensive calendars and planners, only to abandon them by mid-January. It’s better to stick with digital tools or find a more affordable option.

Gym Memberships: A Post-Holiday Regret
I know I prefer outdoor walks to indoor gyms, yet every year I try to become a fitness enthusiast come January. It never lasts, and the money spent is wasted.

Holiday Spending That Brings Joy

Flights Home: Worth Every Penny
Spending money to visit loved ones during the holidays is always worth it, even if it’s expensive.

Staycation Supplies: A Cozy Alternative
Sometimes, staying home and cooking elaborate meals can be a great way to relax and recharge during the holidays.

Seasonally Scented Candles: A Festive Touch
Living in a warm climate can make it hard to feel seasonal. That’s where well-made scented candles come in, bringing a touch of winter wonder to my apartment.

Gifts: For Others and Myself
I love giving thoughtful gifts to others, and also prioritize getting myself one special treat during the holidays. It’s a reminder to take care of myself and reflect on the past year.