She Strengthens

Finding Freedom in the Unlikely

A year ago, I was on top of the world, or so it seemed. Law school, a stylish apartment, and a clear plan for success – I had it all. But beneath the surface, I was struggling with feelings of overwhelm that eventually escalated into a major depressive episode. It was a wake-up call that forced me to re-evaluate my priorities and take a drastic step: moving back into my parents’ guest house.

Letting Go of Perfection

For someone who had always been driven to succeed, this decision was a tough pill to swallow. I had built my identity around being the overachiever who had it all together. But law school was suffocating me, and I realized that my mental health was more important than any degree or accolade. It was time to let go of the need for perfection and focus on what truly mattered.

A New Chapter

Moving back home wasn’t easy, but it’s proven to be a blessing in disguise. I’ve been able to focus on my freelancing career, saving money, and taking care of my physical and mental health. I’ve even started running again – something I hadn’t done in years! My partner and I are building a life together, and we’re excited to set up our own place soon.

Breaking Free from Societal Pressure

Despite the benefits, I still struggle with feelings of shame and inadequacy. Society often views moving back home as a failure, but the reality is that many millennials are doing the same thing. We’re facing a tough economy, rising college costs, and a competitive job market. It’s time to reframe the conversation and recognize that sometimes, moving back home is the smartest decision you can make.

Embracing a New Path

I’ve learned that life is about more than just degrees and accolades. It’s about building a life that truly fulfills you. I’m not the same person I was a year ago, and that’s okay. I’m happier, healthier, and more at peace than I’ve ever been. Moving back home was the catalyst for change, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to start anew.

A New Perspective

As I navigate this new chapter, I’m reminded that it’s okay to take a step back and reassess. It’s okay to prioritize your well-being over societal expectations. And it’s okay to be happy with your decisions, even if they don’t align with others’ opinions. I’m not the same person I was a year ago, and that’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me.