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Embracing Self-Care: My Journey to Loving My Appearance

As a writer, I’ve always found it easier to share my thoughts and experiences with others. But there’s one topic that’s always made me hesitant: my appearance. It’s a personal and vulnerable subject, yet it’s also a part of our daily lives. I’ve realized that my appearance is important to me, and it’s time to start talking about it.

The Struggle with Self-Confidence

I’ve always been anxious about sharing my thoughts on my appearance because I’m not an expert. But the truth is, I’m not an expert in personal finance either, yet I write about it all the time. The real reason I’ve avoided this topic is that I’ve struggled with self-confidence. I love clothes, but I don’t have strict rules for what I buy. I’m body-positive, but I also casually count calories. It’s a complex and confusing mix of emotions.

My Skincare Journey

Recently, I decided to take control of my skincare routine. I’d always washed and moisturized my face, but I felt like I was missing out on something. After reading an article about affordable products from The Ordinary, I started doing some research. I asked for advice from a friend who’s a skincare enthusiast and settled on a few products to add to my morning and nighttime routine.

My Current Routine

My skincare routine now includes:

• Aveeno Ultra Calming Cleanser ($5.99)
• The Ordinary Ascorbyl Glucoside Solution 12% ($12.90)
• The Ordinary Caffeine Solution 5% + EGCG ($6.70)
• The Ordinary Hyaluronic Acid 2% + B5 ($6.80)
• Cerave Moisturizing Cream ($18.80)
• NARS Pure Radiant Tinted Moisturizer Broad Spectrum SPF 30 ($45)

The total cost is $96.19, but these products will last a while. I’ll need to purchase each about three times a year, which works out to a monthly average of $24.05.

The Results

I’ve noticed a difference in how my skin looks and feels. I used to dread getting ready for bed, but now I look forward to it. My skin feels less dry and more glowy, and I’ve even noticed an uptick in my everyday confidence levels.

The Power of Effort

Taking care of my skin has taught me that effort is key. It’s not just about the end result; it’s about the process of trying. Whether it’s taking care of my skin, practicing yoga, or making healthy food choices, I’ve learned that the effort I put in is what makes me feel good about myself.

Embracing Imperfection

My appearance will never be effortless, and that’s okay. I want to look the best I can, but it’s going to take effort. And that’s what makes it worth it. By acknowledging my own effort, I’m reminded that I’m a person who deserves to care for herself.