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Embracing Solo Life: How I’ve Learned to Thrive as an Introvert

As a self-proclaimed homebody, I’ve grown accustomed to the comfort and freedom of living alone. For nearly a decade, I’ve reveled in the ability to make my own decisions, take up as much space as I want, and enjoy unlimited naked time (don’t judge!). But this solo lifestyle also means I’m naturally inclined towards being anti-social. It’s not that I don’t enjoy the company of friends; I’ve just become so used to entertaining myself.

The Comfort of Routine

My daily routine is a well-oiled machine. I get home from work around 5:30 PM, change into workout clothes or pajamas, and settle in for the evening. Whether I’m doing actual exercise, running errands, or simply lounging around, my comfortable attire is my armor against the outside world. Occasionally, I’ll throw in an evening craft or some writing, but I’m perfectly content spending my evenings after work either doing more work or completely vegging out.

The Power of House Parties

To avoid becoming a complete hermit, I’ve found that hosting house parties is the perfect way to socialize without sacrificing my love of comfort and solitude. My gatherings are intentionally low-key and welcoming, even for the shyest of guests. In my previous home, I was known for throwing epic Halloween and New Year’s Eve bashes, complete with homemade treats and decorations. These parties brought my friends together and filled my home with laughter and joy.

Starting Fresh in a New City

Recently, I made the bold move to a new state, leaving behind my familiar routine and social circle. As an introvert in a new place, it’s been challenging to make connections and be social. To combat this, I’ve had to get creative. I’ve started hosting game nights, where friends gather in “pajama-casual” attire to drink wine, snack, and laugh together. It’s been a great way to break the ice and build relationships.

Volunteering: A Social Solution

Another way I’ve met like-minded people is through volunteering at community events. It’s a fantastic, free way to meet new folks while doing something meaningful. I’ve volunteered at beer festivals, food festivals, art installations, and small museums – all of which provide a natural conversation starter and a sense of purpose.

Embracing My Inner Homebody

For now, I’m relishing in my solo life and taking full advantage of my daily Pajama Party For One. Who knows what the future holds? But for now, I’m content to spend time with new friends, explore my city, and live out my Home Alone dreams. How about you? What are your tips for inexpensive and introvert-friendly ways to get comfortable in a new city, try new things, and meet new people?