She Strengthens

Taking Control of My Finances: A Journey into Unconventional Work

I never thought I’d find myself in the sex industry, but life had other plans. After getting fired from my 9-to-5 office job, I was faced with a harsh reality: no emergency fund, $6,000 in credit card debt, and a less-than-stellar credit score. With bills piling up and no job prospects in sight, I had to think outside the box.

A Decent Way to Make Ends Meet

That’s when I remembered an acquaintance who worked at an adult massage studio in town. It wasn’t ideal, but it seemed like a way to put food on the table and pay my rent. I decided to take the leap, and it’s been a game-changer.

How It Works

Our studio operates on a cash-only basis, with strict pricing to ensure fair compensation for our time. Clients know what to expect, and we maintain a high-end standard. My boss emphasizes our worth, reminding us that “bitches don’t go on sale.” This approach prevents undercutting and ensures a standard minimum for our services.

A Better Work-Life Balance

Surprisingly, my work-life balance has improved significantly. I work only three times a week, with flexibility to pursue other passions, like writing and drawing. I’ve even started an erotic book series, set to release this summer. The freedom to come and go as I please, without being tied to a traditional 9-to-5 schedule, has been liberating.

The Financial Upside

My take-home pay varies, but I’ve seen nights where I’ve earned up to $500. After paying room fees, I’m left with a decent amount to cover expenses and save for the future. It’s not always easy, but the good nights make it worthwhile.

Saving for Emergencies

One of the biggest benefits of this job is the ability to save for emergencies. I’ve had a mindset shift, using my credit card wisely to earn cash back and paying it off quickly. I’m proud to say I’m almost debt-free, and I’m building an emergency fund to fall back on.

Taking Control of My Life

This unconventional path has taught me valuable lessons about financial responsibility and taking control of my body and decisions. I’ve learned from my past mistakes and am now focused on saving, investing, and pursuing my passion for writing. It may not be my dream job, but it’s a means to an end, and I’m grateful for the opportunities it’s brought my way.