Rethinking Money: Breaking Free from Shame and Living Life on Our Own Terms

Breaking Free from Financial Baggage

As I hosted my first professional dinner, I knew I wanted to shake things up. No boring speeches, no awkward pitches, and definitely no vapid PR chatter. I wanted honest conversations about money, the kind that would leave a lasting impact.

A New Kind of Conversation

That’s why I partnered with Mint, a company that shares my passion for transparency and authenticity. Our book tour had already shown me the power of open discussions about finance, politics, and personal struggles. Women were finally speaking freely, without the weight of financial shame or competition. The dinner was no exception. We talked about our spending habits, our fears, and our dreams. We laughed, we cried, and we connected on a deeper level.

Beyond the Surface

The women at my table were high-achievers, outwardly successful, and yet, they shared their most vulnerable moments with me. They spoke about the darker side of success: the loss of privacy, the constant pressure to perform, and the doubts that creep in. They revealed that even with all their accomplishments, they still struggled to find balance and happiness. It was a powerful reminder that true fulfillment goes beyond mere financial success.

Living Life on Our Own Terms

When we talk about money, we often focus on the wrong things. We obsess over closing the gender gap, quantifying our success, and scheming our way to the top. But what if we could shift the conversation? What if money became a tool to live the life we truly want, rather than an end in itself? That’s what I saw at the dinner, and that’s what I wish for all women: to be able to speak freely about money, without the baggage of shame or competition.

Money as a Means, Not an End

Money is a powerful tool, but it’s not the only measure of success. When we understand its true value, we can use it to build the life we want, rather than letting it control us. I hope that each of you will learn to harness the power of money, not just to pay the bills, but to live a life that’s meaningful, beautiful, and complex. Let’s break free from the emotional weight of finance and start living life on our own terms.

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