She Strengthens

Counting Down to the Big Day

With only a few days left until I tie the knot, I’m overwhelmed with excitement and nerves. As I reflect on the past year of wedding planning, I’m struck by the surprises and lessons I’ve learned along the way.

The Wedding Industry Complex

One of the biggest surprises has been the sheer cost of getting married. While my parents are covering the venue, food, and flowers, Peter and I are still footing a significant bill. I’ve gained newfound sympathy for couples who go over budget, as it’s incredibly easy to get caught up in the pressure to deliver a perfect day.

The Little Things Add Up

From wedding favors to DIY decor, the small expenses can quickly spiral out of control. I’ve learned to prioritize what’s truly important to us and cut back on unnecessary costs. It’s essential to decide what’s worth splurging on and what can be sacrificed.

The Importance of Gratitude

As we finalize our guest list, I’ve been taken aback by the friends who have RSVP’d “no” without explanation or didn’t bother to respond at all. While I understand that attending a wedding can be a significant commitment, a simple message or acknowledgement would mean the world.

Challenging Societal Norms

Some people believe that romantic relationships shouldn’t be celebrated as much as they are today. While I understand this perspective, I believe that if a friend invites you to their wedding, it’s because they value your presence. Ignoring their celebration can be hurtful.

Embracing Tradition

I never thought I’d be the type to opt for a traditional wedding dress, but after trying on a few options, I fell in love with a silver gown. It’s taught me that sometimes, what we think we want isn’t what’s truly important. My wedding isn’t about making a statement; it’s about celebrating my love for Peter.

Letting Go of Expectations

Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, especially when trying to balance our own desires with those of our loved ones. I’ve learned to let go of the pressure to prove anything and focus on what truly matters – our love and commitment to each other.