Nostalgia and Life Lessons: Cherishing Time with Mom
As I navigate the ups and downs of life, I find myself grasping for nostalgia more often. With Mother’s Day around the corner, my thoughts are filled with memories of my mom’s wisdom, her unwavering strength, and her signature “Southern mama” charm. As she grows older, I’m reminded to cherish every moment with her, and the lessons she’s taught me about life.
The Importance of Financial Independence
One of the most valuable lessons my mom, Pam, has instilled in me is the need for financial independence. She believes that every woman should have “getaway money” – a separate stash of savings that can be used to escape any situation that becomes toxic or unhealthy. This philosophy is rooted in her own experiences growing up in poverty and witnessing the damage that can come from staying in a relationship for financial convenience. Her advice has been instrumental in shaping my approach to relationships and finances.
The Power of Asking
My mom has also taught me the importance of asking questions and seeking help when needed. Growing up, she would often say, “Closed mouths don’t get fed.” This mantra has encouraged me to be more proactive in seeking discounts, disputing claims, and asking for samples. While I may not be as bold as my mom, I’ve learned to be more courageous in my interactions with others.
Investing in Quality
Another valuable lesson my mom has taught me is the importance of investing in quality over quantity. Whether it’s clothing, skincare, or self-care routines, she’s always emphasized the need to prioritize quality over trendy or cheap alternatives. This philosophy has saved me from wasting money on fleeting fads and has encouraged me to focus on what truly matters.
Self-Love and Preparation
As I reflect on my mom’s teachings, I realize that her most important lesson is the value of self-love and preparation. She’s taught me that self-love is not just about indulging in pampering activities, but about advocating for myself and believing that I’m worth the extra time, resources, and energy. Her dedication to teaching me these lifelong lessons has been instrumental in shaping the person I am today.
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