She Strengthens

Breaking Free from Financial Illusions

Growing up, my parents would often tell me to save my money, but they never explained why it was important or what I should do with it. Despite their advice, I rarely saw them practice what they preached. In fact, they often struggled to make ends meet, and I think this mixed message did a number on my own relationship with money.

The Blurred Lines of Financial Reality

My parents’ financial situation was always a mystery to me. My dad was the primary breadwinner, while my mom worked odd jobs or stayed at home. We weren’t wealthy, and I knew that much. But what I didn’t understand was why they would splurge on expensive gatherings and clothes, only to struggle to fix things around the house. It wasn’t until high school that I realized they were trying to keep up with their friends’ spending habits.

The Unconscious Cycle of Consumption

As I entered adulthood, I began to emulate my parents’ spending habits. I’d buy designer handbags, clothes, and shoes, and frequent expensive restaurants. I thought I was saving money by moving whatever was left over into my savings account at the end of the month. But often, there was nothing left, and I’d dip into my savings to fund my indulgences. It wasn’t until I took a hard look at my bank account that I realized I was perpetuating a cycle of consumption that was doing long-term damage to my financial potential.

Seeking Financial Clarity

That’s when I knew I needed to take control of my finances. I began to research personal finance and discovered the concept of passive income, particularly through owning rental properties. Suddenly, I had a goal to work towards, and my perspective on money shifted. I no longer saw it as a means to obtain material possessions, but as a tool to achieve financial security and build lasting wealth.

Empowering My Financial Future

My parents still prioritize appearances over financial prudence, but I’ve made a conscious decision to prioritize my future. I’m committed to learning about wealth-building and business ownership, not just for myself, but also to ensure a secure future for my family. It’s not ideal, but taking care of loved ones is what building a lasting legacy is all about.

A New Chapter

As I continue on this journey, I’m excited to share my experiences and insights with others. I’m dipping my toes into the world of personal finance and freelance writing, and I hope to inspire others to take control of their financial futures.