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Embracing the Unconventional: 6 Crucial Questions to Ask Yourself

As an improviser, playwright, and freelance writer, I’ve had my fair share of awkward conversations at parties. You know, the ones where you’re forced to explain your unconventional career path to well-meaning acquaintances who just don’t get it. But after years of navigating these conversations, I’ve come to realize that the key to confidence lies not in apologizing for my choices, but in understanding what truly matters.

The Social Perks of a Day Job

When you’re working outside the traditional 9-to-5 framework, it’s easy to feel like you’re missing out on the social perks that come with a “real job.” But is that really what you’re after? Do you want the security and camaraderie of a weekly schedule, or is it just the idea of having a “real job” that’s driving your desire?

The Power of Perspective

Remember that the opinions of others are fleeting. Will you even recall what an acquaintance thought of your career path a day, week, or year from now? Probably not. So, why let their judgement hold you back? Focus on your larger creative and career goals, and surround yourself with people who encourage and support you.

Making the Most of Your Liberties

One of the biggest perks of working outside the traditional framework is the freedom to create your own schedule. But are you taking advantage of that freedom? Don’t get sucked into the hustle and bustle of constant scheduling and rescheduling. Make time for personal projects, creative pursuits, and self-care.

Building Towards a Bigger Goal

When you’re grinding through a tough service job or retail gig, it’s easy to lose sight of your long-term goals. But what are you working towards, beyond the daily slog? Take time to meditate, reflect, and reevaluate your priorities. Break free from the cycle of resentment and resignation, and focus on building towards a bigger goal.

Embracing Curiosity

When people ask about your career path, they’re not always looking to judge. They’re often genuinely curious about how others are navigating the world. So, don’t be so quick to apologize or deflect. Embrace their curiosity, and remember that you’re not alone in your unconventional choices.

Finding Your Tribe

Finally, find your community. Surround yourself with people who understand your position, and who can offer valuable advice and support. As humans, we thrive on connections with others, and we learn best from social exchange. So, find your fellow odd ducks, and together, navigate the ups and downs of working outside the traditional framework.