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College Mistakes and How to Bounce Back

As we navigate the ups and downs of college life, it’s inevitable that we’ll make mistakes. Whether it’s getting lost on campus, hooking up with someone you see often, or overspending, these blunders can be frustrating and embarrassing. However, it’s how we recover from these mistakes that truly matters.

Getting Lost on Campus

We’ve all been there – frantically searching for a building that seems to have vanished into thin air. To avoid this, ask a friendly-looking student or professor for directions. If you’re too proud to ask, upload a campus map to your phone to subtly navigate your way around. And if you do end up late to class, apologize to your professor and be honest – they’re more understanding than you think.

Awkward Encounters

Hooking up with someone you see often can lead to some cringe-worthy moments. But don’t let it get to you. Simply acknowledge them with a friendly “hey!” and move on. If you’re not feeling confident, pretend to be on your phone and avoid eye contact altogether.

Locking Yourself Out

It’s easy to forget your keys or lock yourself out of your dorm room. If you have a roommate, ask them to let you in. If not, trek to a friend’s dorm and ask them to call your roommate or message them on Facebook. As a last resort, find your RA or call campus security. To avoid this in the future, hook your keys and ID on a command hook next to the door.

Overscheduling Yourself

We’ve all been guilty of taking on too much at some point. To recover, map out your schedule and prioritize your obligations. Cut out anything that’s not necessary and focus on what brings you happiness. Don’t be afraid to say no to commitments that drain your energy.

Talking Trash to the Wrong Person

Gossiping can be tempting, but it’s essential to be mindful of who you’re speaking to. If you’re confronted about your gossip, own up to it and apologize. Find trusted friends who you can freely chat with, and always check to see who’s listening.

Sticking with the Wrong Crowd

Freshman year can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to cling to temporary friends who aren’t a good fit. But once you settle in, it’s okay to reassess your friendships and make changes. Be open and honest with your friends, and don’t be afraid to join new clubs or meet new people.

Blowing Your Budget

College can be expensive, and it’s easy to get caught up in peer pressure to spend money. To recover, read up on budgeting tips and create limits for yourself. Try getting an on-campus job to combat overspending, and don’t be afraid to stand your ground with friends who want to splurge.

Distancing Yourself from Professors

In college, it’s essential to build relationships with professors who can provide valuable guidance and support. If you’ve distanced yourself from professors, visit their office hours and show genuine interest in their work. Ask for help on assignments or tips for getting into your desired field. By forming these relationships, you’ll set yourself up for success in the long run.