She Strengthens

Embracing the Lessons of Youth

As I reflect on my early twenties, I’m reminded of the countless mistakes I made and the valuable lessons I learned along the way. If I could turn back time, there are several things I would do differently.

The Value of Patience

I would have been kinder to myself during that tumultuous period. The pressure to succeed and find my place in the world was overwhelming, and I often felt like I was falling short. I wish I had acknowledged that it’s okay to not have all the answers and that patience is a virtue.

Appreciating the Journey

I would have cherished the experiences I had during that time, rather than viewing them as mere stepping stones to my “real life.” Volunteering at the Cancer Resource Center, working at a winery, and waiting tables were all valuable experiences that taught me important skills and gave me a sense of purpose.

Letting Go of Expectations

I would have stopped comparing myself to others and focusing on their perceived successes. Everyone’s journey is unique, and I wish I had celebrated my own accomplishments rather than envying those of others.

Taking Control

I would have taken ownership of my decisions and stopped seeking validation from others. Whether it was moving to a new city or switching careers, I wish I had trusted my instincts and taken the leap without hesitation.

Financial Faux Pas

I would have managed my finances more wisely, avoiding overdraft fees and understanding the importance of balancing my savings and checking accounts. It’s a hard lesson to learn, but one that’s essential for long-term financial stability.

Hindsight is 20/20

Looking back, I would have kept my side hustle going, even after landing a 9-to-5 job. Having multiple income streams can provide a sense of security and freedom.

The Power of Reflection

I would have taken the time to reflect on my experiences and decisions, rather than trying to rationalize them to others. Self-awareness is key to personal growth, and I wish I had practiced it more during that time.

Lessons Learned

Lastly, I would have stopped panicking and trusted that everything would work out in the end. Anxiety can be debilitating, and I wish I had learned to temper my fears and focus on the present moment.

These are just a few of the lessons I’ve learned from my early twenties. While it’s impossible to turn back time, I hope that by sharing these insights, others can avoid making the same mistakes and instead focus on building a brighter future.