Lockdown Luxury: How I Spent My Way to Self-Discovery

Summer of Self-Indulgence: How I Spent My Way Through Lockdown

As I reflect on the past few months, I’m reminded of a conversation with friends back in February about our summer vibes. We were all excited for a season of freedom, adventure, and fun. But little did we know, the pandemic had other plans.

The Unplanned Staycation

When the lockdown hit, my friends and I were forced to adapt to a new reality. I went from a daily commute to working from home, while my friends in the arts industry were furloughed and had to move back in with their parents. I thought I’d save money by not having to go out, but somehow, I ended up spending more than I did the previous summer.

Grocery Bills: A Tale of Two Summers

In 2019, I spent $688.96 on groceries, carefully planning my trips to the cheapest store and price-matching to rack up points. This summer, I spent almost the same amount, $684.69, but with a twist. My concerned mother would bring me groceries every other week, so I splurged on non-essentials from pricier stores closer to home, including a trendy health food store with a $9 freshly squeezed orange juice habit.

Treating Myself

My “personals” category, which includes cleaning supplies, clothing, and self-care, saw a significant jump from $692.28 in 2019 to $1,176.38 this summer. I treated myself to AirPods, new running shoes, a vibrator, Supergoop sunscreen, and a yoga mat, among other luxuries. It was a summer of self-indulgence, and I’m not ashamed to admit it.

Dining, Drinking, and Entertainment

Last summer, I spent $909.04 on socializing, but this summer, I surprisingly spent more, $1,049.79, despite the lockdown. I stopped buying cheap coffee and started supporting local businesses, including my favorite ice cream shop. I also splurged on extra shopping, accumulating a pink mesh turtleneck, fancy bikinis, and random thrift store finds.

Artistic Expression

I never intended to become an art collector, but that’s exactly what happened. I initially set aside money for a gallery wall, but it turned into a full-blown art collection, with six walls of custom-framed art totaling $4,595. Ouch! That’s $1,534.70 more than I planned to spend on my cancelled summer vacation.

Lessons Learned

Looking back, I realize I let loose with my budget, but I’m not regretful. I tracked every dollar, and I know I can adjust my spending habits for the winter months. This summer may have been strange, but it was also a time for self-discovery and indulgence. When we finally emerge from this pandemic, I’ll look back on these purchases with fondness, not regret.

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