She Strengthens

The Unspoken Truth About Motherhood

As I sit here, surrounded by the chaos of toys and tantrums, I’m reminded that being a mom is not always a walk in the park. In fact, some days it feels like a never-ending marathon. Don’t get me wrong, I adore my kids, but there are moments when I just want to scream, “Can I have a minute to myself, please?”

The Guilt-Free Confession

For years, I felt ashamed to admit that being a mom wasn’t always easy. I thought I was alone in my struggles, that other moms had it together while I was barely holding on. But the truth is, many of us feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and desperate for a break. It’s okay to acknowledge that motherhood can be tough, even if we love our children with every fiber of our being.

A Full-Time Job with No Pay

When people say being a mom is a full-time job, they’re not kidding. It’s a 24/7 commitment that leaves little room for personal freedom. I used to think mothers who complained about lack of sleep were exaggerating, but now I get it. The exhaustion is real, and it’s not just physical. It’s emotional, mental, and spiritual.

My Journey to Self-Acceptance

I met my husband in college, and we had a whirlwind romance. We got married, had two beautiful kids, and built a life together. But along the way, I lost myself in the process. I became so focused on being a good mom and wife that I forgot to prioritize my own needs. It took a conversation with my husband, where he affectionately referred to our kids as “little assholes,” for me to realize that it’s okay to acknowledge the challenges of motherhood without feeling guilty.

Embracing the Imperfections

My kids are lovable, but they’re also tiny humans who can drive me crazy. My son is sweet and attention-seeking, while my daughter is feisty and fiery. They’re both unique, and I love them for who they are. But some days, I just want to pull my hair out. That’s when I remind myself that it’s okay to take a step back, breathe, and admit that motherhood is hard.

Breaking Free from Guilt

For 10 years, I’ve put my role as a mother above everything else. I’ve sacrificed my own desires, fears, and dreams to ensure my kids are safe and happy. But in doing so, I’ve lost a part of myself. I hope that as I grow older, I’ll find the courage to reclaim my identity, to take risks, and to live for myself again.

You’re Not Alone

If you’re a mom reading this, know that you’re not alone. We’re all in this together, struggling to balance our roles as mothers, wives, and individuals. It’s okay to admit that motherhood can be tough, even if we love our kids with all our hearts. So, take a deep breath, grab a cup of coffee (or wine), and remember that you’re doing a great job, mom.