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Embracing My True Self: A Journey of Simplification

As someone who loves fashion, decorating, and collecting things, I’ve always been drawn to the finer things in life. However, last year, I embarked on a personal journey to simplify my life and gain control over the chaos that had taken over.

Taking Back Control

It started with my bedroom, which had become a disaster zone. I created a Pinterest board, aptly titled “Living More Simply,” and set out to transform my space into a haven where I could feel like myself. The process was therapeutic, and soon, the principles I applied to my bedroom began to bleed into other areas of my life.

Quality Over Quantity

I didn’t adopt a minimalist lifestyle, but I did start to cut back on things that didn’t truly enrich my life. I pared down my lipsticks from 75 to just a few that made me feel confident. I donated DVDs I never watched and let go of clothes that didn’t bring me joy. The anxiety that came with owning so much began to lift, and I felt more in control.

Living Authentically

For me, it wasn’t about adopting a minimalist label or depriving myself of things I loved. It was about living with intention and surrounding myself with only what brought me joy. I realized that sometimes, people accumulate possessions to feel okay, but it can ultimately do more harm than good.

Finding Comfort in Simplicity

I used to feel anxious without my 12-step morning routine, which included a shower, skincare products, makeup, and heat-styled hair. But now, I’ve simplified my routine and feel more comfortable with fewer products. I still take care of myself, but I’m no longer reliant on so many things to feel like myself.

Striking a Balance

I’m still figuring out the perfect balance between owning what I need to feel comfortable and not getting too excessive. It’s a journey, and I’m not perfect. Sometimes, I feel guilty about having more belongings than others, but I’m working on making purposeful purchases and saving money in the process.

A Work in Progress

Simplifying my life has been a transformative experience, but it’s not a destination – it’s a continuous journey. I’m still learning to navigate the line between comfort and excess, but I’m committed to becoming a version of myself that feels completely comfortable in my own skin, minus all the “extra.”